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I Have a Dream: A Colorblind Society and More
by Eric Putkonen


Someone once said to me, "Remember, you are unique...just like everyone else," and it stuck with me. We are all different in some way. I am male...others are not. I am white...others are not. I am an American...others are not. You can always find something that makes you different than another. We are all like snowflakes...each one is different, but we are all never-the-less snowflakes. With that, the answer to how to transcend our differences reveals itself.

We must stop identifying with our small tribes and identify with the whole. As long as we separate, emphasize, or set apart one group based on some characteristic, there will always be a division. For example, as long as we have Black History Month or some other derivative segregation, African Americans will never fully melt into the whole of the pot of our society, which is exactly what they or anyone else wants...to be treated the same regardless of color of the skin.

I would like to see racism and racialism disappear forever. A truly colorblind society would be a wondrous thing to behold and experience. I would be a person...not a white man, to everyone. When I was far more innocent and starting junior college in northern Minnesota, I remember talking about a new acquaintance I had met and someone said, "Hey, I know him. Isn't he black?"

I remember thinking to myself, "Yeah, so what?" The thought of him being black did not matter until someone else pointed it out. As I moved to bigger cities with more diverse populations, I found that the diversity was pointed out more and more. There were Awareness Months for some groups and divisions. It makes it much more difficult to see someone just as a person when external forces are pointing out the fact they differ from you in some specific but superficial way...and more devastating, this division is treated like it means something. It really should not matter.

It is done in the name of "Awareness," but it is counterproductive to the equality sought. "Awareness" is perpetuating the division. See these people and what they did...how will this lead to a colorblind society? This only sustains the we/they and us/them mentality. Ideally, we would want to be unaware of someone's color and just treat everyone as people. As long as a division exists, there will always be division. Where there is division, there will always be conflict. I see the goal being a colorblind society, but for that to exist we have to become one group. United. This can spread into gender, nationality, etc., as well.

Ideally, one day we would give up the identity of being Americans and become citizens of the world. Whites, Blacks, Indians, etc., would become people that happen to be of some color. Men and women would become people who happen to be of a gender. It is a de-emphasis of the section and identifying with the whole. Now there are real differences in people based on sex, race, etc., but when you meet someone, it would never be something that is focused on or thought of. It is not a classification or pigeonhole to put someone...this person is this...that person is that. You would stop classifying and pigeonholing based upon external characteristics.

With the emphasis or "awareness" not on the differences but on the whole, presto! A colorblind society, and more is born. With some divisions gone, conflicts would automatically decrease and, thus, it would increase the overall level of peace on this planet.

But this would mean giving up our identities to a certain extent. People find comfort in a tribal or clannish feeling by identifying with a group and having them identify with you. I'm with my own and safe. My family, my race, my gender, my church, my age group, etc. We are the same and therefore I am safe with them...or at least safe in certain ways based on our sameness. You have to give all this up for the greater whole. So, too, must pride for one's color, race, sex, nationality, etc., be given up. One should not feel bad about oneself, but pride about some superficial characteristic must go. For example, the Gay Pride movement must come to an end some day to become one group.

There is a certain security based on similar pains. I am of this and I have been mistreated because of this...and you have too. So there is a derived connection and safety in this. This too must be given up. Some fear giving this up, but they don't realize that the greater whole also lends strength and support.

Old grudges and hatreds must be released. Forgiveness is needed. Each group or tribe of people must forgive the other and give each a fresh start. Benefits can no longer be given to one group because of ancient wrongdoings of another group. The slate must be cleaned. Forgiveness is a unifier and can help bring together what was split asunder.

Whatever hindrances or blocks there are to unification, they must be overcome. Once the differences between us are transcended, we will recognize we are all just snowflakes. Then one day after that, we will learn to cherish our uniqueness and see each other as a gift because of our uniqueness.

Eric Putkonen is a 13-year veteran in spiritual, metaphysical, and occult study. He is giving workshops and forming a weekly meditation group in Plymouth. E-mail him at
Eric_Putkonen@yahoo.com
Copyright © 2005 Eric Putkonen. All rights reserved.
May 2005

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